It is in the middle of the night here, and my mind is double checking that I have finished my tasks and planned my flight home. So, this will be my last posting until I am again sitting at my desk with the phones ringing, the dog barking, the garden needing tending, and all that contributes to my life at home. So, a sense of summary begins to consume my thoughts and charts my last hours in Europe. Many of you have taken this trip with me, have sent me witty comments, and laughed we me –maybe a little– about being thrown out of Harrods because I was photographing in the store. I am determined to get kicked out of a store again because I will continue to photograph scenes, sets, and beauty which catch my eye. We have eaten together, gone to concerts together, ridden taxis together, and most of all just touched, smelled, and tasted London together. What an amazing world we live in with quick transportation, amazing technology, foods from all round the world, books filled with history and tales, items to dazzle the eyes and stir the imagination, and places to worship and sing songs together. When I was a child, I collected stamps, listened to fine music, read everything I could get my hands on, and loved to speak to someone in another language. It was a young boy traveling in his mind and learning to wonder and ponder, wonder and ponder, wonder and ponder. In so many ways, we are the creations of our own imaginations and we live in our own space, creating the amazing lives we live. So, as we travel wherever we go, we take ourselves with us. Traveling is the experience in life which brings together all our fantasies and imaginings. The richness of a trip is greatly influenced by all the dreams we have lived with. So, fill your houses with books and music and images and flowers and fabrics and history and theater and poetry and glass and wood and smells and food and above all a peaceful soul to appreciate the wonderful world we live in and share together.
The success of a successful ride home is being ready to go early. Those who throw their “stuff” in the case, rushing to the airport exhausted and disorganized, will hate their ride home. You will flop in your airplane seat and ask yourself if it was all worth it. It is like going home from a holiday to have a holiday to get over the holiday and wonder if a holiday is ever worth a holiday again. Isn’t that sad. Get a good rest before you leave, and be sure you have all your travel documents on you. Do PLEASE check your travel papers, and do not arrive at the airport at the last minute. In London, you must be to the airport three hours early, and you need to give your driver one hour to deliver you and your party, My flight leaves at 7:45 am tomorrow morning which means I have to be to the airport at 5:00 am which further means I have to leave Central London at 4:00 am. I am a great believer in being picked up at the airport and returned to the airport by a trusted driver. I can’t imagine starting a trip hustling to central London on a train after 15 hours of traveling, pulling luggage all the way. That’s like death row. Returning to the airport is a very careful task. Check your bags, check to see you have your wallet and passport, and be sure you have checked the drawers and closets to avoid leaving items behind. I never travel with laced shoes because I am forever kicking off my shoes for security or for comfort, and it is not good for me to bend over and tie the damn things up. Dump your coins in a tip cup so you don’t set off the alarm every time you cross through another security check. And for sure don’t take security procedures in a light-minded way; it is serious business, and a traveler must be a partner in the security process. Sleep on the plane if you can–my eyes are closed and I am off in a deep sleep almost before the plane takes off. I have learned to do that from traveling so much for so many years. The key to sleeping well on a plane is knowing that you have departed on an organized note, and you have taken excellent attention to detail. Enjoy the ride home.
I have been living in flats in London for many years. When you are in a home, there is a comfort that is never achieved in a hotel. I simply like to cook my own eggs and bacon, burn my own toast, and enjoy my RAAAAAAZBERRY jam. I can grab a sandwich at lunch and then really enjoy a good dinner. So, I continue to come to London to find flats, enjoy my friends, and laugh and plot with the owners. The owners of the flats are amazing. We have become great friends over the years. We are not only trading partners; we are building a business together. So, a trip to London for me is a combination of friends, business, history, restaurants, shopping, and then back again to the continual search for the best flats for our clients who come from all walks of life.
So often, people want to plan their trips with an itinerary organized right down to the hour. As Ann Bancroft says in 84 Charing Cross Road: IF YOU PLAN YOUR ITINERARY YOU WILL SEE ONLY THAT WHICH YOU HAVE PLANNED TO SEE. But remember, you bring yourselves on a trip. Some of you like music, some of you like art galleries, some of you like shopping, some of US like antiques, and most of us like history–to some degree. I have a brother-in-law who loves history, and I am so looking forward to the day when he and I can wander further into the streets of this city just devouring the spots where historical events happened. I want to walk around Piccadilly Circus and up Air Street where Mildred wandered in the novel OF HUMAN BONDAGE. For me London is walking the streets, talking to everyone in the cafes, finding a new concert series. I get a feeling often that many travelers are frightened and feel lost. Goodness, just get on a bus and go SOMEWHERE. Who cares where? Walk in central London and every street will reveal new secrets. Be an explorer and get lost. THEN, your trip will be YOUR trip and not a planned trip out of a guide book. Sure, see the main sites and the specific things you want to see–everyone should go to the Tower of London, stand in front of the gates at Buckingham Palace, and see PHANOM OF THE OPERA. But then, melt into the city and make it yours. You have been putting those stamps in the book all your life and reading Jane Austen and going to concerts and taking art classes and enjoying your local restaurants and trying to put together all those history classes. Well, it’s time to let it all come out as you and London join hands for an experience of a lifetime.
When I was in high school, I had a fantastic English teacher named Miss Belva Mythaler. She and her sister Fern are STARS in my life. I always loved to read, but they opened the doors to English literature and biography for me. Every week, we learned a poem or a literary selection, and every once in awhile those lines come rushing back to me. At my age, looking back, I am grateful–deeply grateful–to inspiring teachers who threw one book out of the window and another one they threw AT ME. The books they threw at me were written by Hardy, Conrad, Sir Walter Scott, Dickens, Chekhov, Robert Frost, Proust, Balzac, John Milton, etc.. I loved their books, and I always wanted to know those authors well, but I wanted to know them in the setting where those books were written. So, London and Paris and wherever–here we are, right in the heart of this great city of London where so much of the culture of the western world finds its home. One of those ditties we all learn along the way assures us: THE WHOLE WORLD IS IN REVOLT. SOON THERE WILL BE ONLY FIVE KINGS LEFT: THE KING OF ENGLAND, THE KING OF SPADES, THE KING OF CLUBS, THE KING OF HEARTS AND THE KING OF DIAMONDS. Oh, this London, This England.
I have asked myself often: WHAT CRIME DO I STAND CONDEMNED? CERTAINLY IT MUST BE LOVING THIS LIFE AND WORLD SO MUCH.
And to Percy Bysshe Shelley in one of those poems I learned in the tenth grade:
“Hail to thee, blithe Spirit!
Bird thou never wert–
That from Heaven, or near it,
Pourest thy full heart
In profuse strains of unpremeditated art.
Higher still and higher
From the earth thou springest
Like a cloud of fire;
The blue deep thou wingest,
And singing still dost soar, and
soaring ever singest,
In the golden lightning
Of the sunken Sun–
O’er which clouds are brightening,
Thou dost float and run;
Like an unbodied joy whose race is
just begun.
Here we are, friends, wandering down Memory Lane with so much to think about, to see, and to hear-learn-love. You might want to do that by starting a walk from the steps of the National Gallery and then wandering down Whitehall to listen to Big Ben strike.
You have been wonderful to come along on this ride with me.